Genogram Symbols: A Complete Guide

A genogram uses a fixed set of symbols to record family members, marriages, parent-child structure and the emotional relationships between people. This page lists the common symbols and what they mean, drawn exactly as they appear in the EcoGenogram editor.

People

Each family member is drawn as a shape: a square for a male, a circle for a female. A common practice is to write the age inside the shape and the name and birth year next to it.

Basic

Male
Female

Sexual orientation and gender identity

An inverted triangle inside the shape marks a gay or lesbian person; a dashed triangle marks a bisexual person. For a transgender person, a second shape for the identified gender is drawn inside the outline.

Gay (Male)
Lesbian
Bisexual (Male)
Bisexual (Female)
Transgender M→F
Transgender F→M

Pregnancy and unborn

A triangle marks a pregnancy where the sex is not yet known. Miscarriage, induced abortion and stillbirth are distinguished by crossed lines on the symbol.

Pregnancy (sex unknown)
Miscarriage
Induced Abortion
Stillbirth (Male)
Stillbirth (Female)

Special marks

An X inside the shape marks a deceased person. The index person is the focus of the genogram; EcoGenogram fills the shape in grey, while some textbooks use a double outline. Multiple births branch down from a single point.

Deceased
Index Person
Multiple Birth

Other

Pet

Couple relationships

Two partners are joined by a horizontal line, and their children hang down from that line. A solid line means marriage; a dashed line means an unmarried relationship such as engagement or cohabitation. One slash across the line marks a separation, two slashes a divorce. By tradition the male partner is drawn on the left.

Marriage
Engagement
Separation
Legal Separation
Divorce
Broken Engagement
Widowed
Engaged & Cohabiting
Cohabitation
Civil Union
Affair

Parents and children

Children connect to the couple line with vertical lines and are ordered by birth from left to right, oldest first. Biological children use a solid line, adopted children a dashed line.

Biological
Adopted

Emotional relationship lines

Emotional relationship lines run between two people and use line style and colour to show the nature of the relationship: green leans positive, red shows conflict, purple shows abuse. Lines with an arrow have a direction, pointing towards the person on the receiving end.

Distance

Indifference
Distant
Cutoff
Cutoff Repaired
Never Met
Standard

Positive

Harmony
Close / Friendship
Very Close
Love
In Love
Emotional Connection

Conflict

Hostile
Physical Violence
Discord
Hate

Mixed

Distant & Hostile
Distant & Violent
Close & Hostile
Close & Violent
Fused & Hostile
Fused & Violent
Fused (Enmeshed)

Abuse

Abuse
Physical Abuse
Emotional Abuse
Sexual Abuse
Neglect

Special

Manipulative
Controlling
Jealous
Focused On
Negatively Focused
Admirer
Limerence
Distrust

Variations between conventions

There is no single mandatory standard for genograms, and textbooks and agencies draw some symbols differently. If your organisation has its own guidelines, follow them; what matters most is staying consistent within one genogram.